>>123124089>I've got some hang-ups about feeling worthless and unlovable, so that shit hurt.And I'm sure it hurt them because they wanted more and didn't know when it would come back. Not at all saying you were responsible or needed to amend that, just that it's good to remind yourself of where they're coming from. They want girl parts, they're straight men obviously, but they need the confidence to go out and look for it themselves, and how to improve. If you do this, research pragmatic advice for general anxieties, like weight loss, finances, relationships and intimacy. They're probably expecting someone to give them a direction of what to do, so any affection feels like fate and destiny, when it's really just his therapy.
Be the change you want to see, make sure people you cuddle with feel worthwhile and loved while spending time with you, and it's not just a less available prostitute. Really amplify the initmate vulnerability and reassurances. If you aren't going to go physically deeper with someone, go emotionally deeper. They're gonna be paying so you'll need to be providing a level of quality that justifies money. Even if you disagree, play to their ego, give them confidence and the words they want to hear, whatever those words are.