Teen girl grabs her friend's father and kisses him:>He laughs it off and tells her something like she's moving a bit too fast
He is reviled for clearly leading her on and opening the door to her doing it again. He his criticized for not scolding her and then lecturing her on boundaries as well as making it clear that behavior is not welcome.>He pulls away and does explain to her she can't do stuff like that
He is crucified for denying a young girl the chance to explore her sexuality. The fact he had the audacity to mansplain to her about her choice and her body's freedom is worse than Hitler
Yeah, it doesn't work the other way around because no matter what a male character did in response would have been accepted.