>>119379382That may be the case generally, but I'd describe an aspect of it very opposite to your whole spiel. Mainly,
>The Sub gets to fulfill an emotional need of being strongly desiredI want to desire something strongly more-so than be desired, more than anything else.
Specifically I want to lose my mind to desire, that kind of works with the rubber band thing you said but I guess the "Dom" in this case would be desire itself and yielding to it in the sense that it becomes inexhaustibly authentic. For example in the stereotypical "Captured and hypnotized" scenario I'd like a command to be implemented that I'm attracted to a certain partner, gender or owner beyond measure.
Traditional bdsm doesn't do as much for me because just having some latex bitch say she owns you doesn't really satisfy me that much, it's about messing with your mind and will and in that scenario the Dominatrix has to literally whip and beat you up to earn your love, which seems very inauthentic and cold/unenjoyable to me.
