>>119175415>I think personally based off of what you wrote you need to take some time to look at yourself and ask why you think you hold all the answers for someone and why you haven't undertaken the efforts to help your friend get out from abuse and to stand on their ownI objectively know that I would not perpetuate the negative things he does in the relationship. I already treat her child better. And I make enough money that all of her financial problems would go away.
Also, the shit he does that causes blow ups, panic attacks, crying in her car? yeah, I don't do those things.
I do what I can to help her. I called CPS on the husband when he hit the child. I build her up. I tell her how great she is. How smart she is. And I help her financially when its not weird.
You guys say it isn't the height, but at some point you have to stand back and see what the differences are. He's a garbage person but is more attractive than I am. I'm kinder, more helpful, I'm positive. I have more money. I'm more skilled.
But she stays with him. So whats the difference? He's more attractive and part of that is his height.
I'm just being real with myself. He's hotter than me.
