>>119071441huh, so it's selfhate or something?
Most gays i know aren't into the gay circles and live pretty normal lives. The worst i know is an ex, who's bisexual and bipolar. She got married in a hurry, or rather, her husband did, when she started talking to me again. I haven't talked with her in a while, because of him and her hinting at marriage not being a line you shouldn't cross.
I had a great uncle who was gay, a "confirmed bachelor", so AFAIK, was a devote catholic who never even had a BF. We have a tight extended family, so there were very few secrets, especially with gossip being extremely important with my mom and aunts.
