What makes things worse is that these people are laid back because they consider everybody younger than 34 or something a fucking child. I wish I was exaggerating but I am not.
I genuinely think this is some mental problem because it was one of the reasons I left tumblr. I met people around my age (so older than 24 and up to 28 at the end) engaged in similar fandoms, so I was stupid enough to follow them or even talk to them and quickly noticed that most behaved like fucking kids.
Not even teenagers. But actual fucking kids that are 12 or something.
They cried all the time over mundane shit (using CAPS), they were hyped because their "mommy" brought them some sweets and they also asked their mothers whether they could watch some cartoon for kids on tv and made really bad photos of it instead of just googling screenshots or watching it on the net (some were officially on youtube).
One of them (27) whined for not finding episodes, so I posted a torrent link. Then she flipped her shit, not per PM, but openly about not understanding how torrents work (using CAPS). I explained it in detail in the reply and a day later she kept crying, openly again because she didn't understand even after my step by step advice. Another one (25) stopped working for months and got pampered by her "mommy" because her cats were fighting each other for over a week which caused a mental breakdown to her.
Not even lying, I deleted my tumblr account a few weeks later because this shit was genuinely uncomfortable to me. It felt like engaging with little elementary school kids as some grownass adult of almost 30 years. I don't wonder at all that the same types of people write such posts and cry about ships that aren't pure fluff nothing-ever-happens shit.