Le me describe a man to you; late 20's to early 30's. Below-average appearance, but not especially deformed.. Fragile ego, prone to aggressive reaction-formation. No major interpersonal relationships outside of his immediate family. Intelligence is within a standard deviation from average- likely high enough to create a self-image of being intelligent while not being high enough that this difference is meaningful in adulthood. Possibly abused by women in early life, more likely simply mocked, with exaggerated ego-injury. An internal conflict forms, based around the person they see themselves as and their actual life: they cannot reach their own measure.
This self-loathing is projected outwards onto women, especially ones he finds sexually desirable, out of the false belief that women never face difficulty or ego-injury in their life. A major fixation may be the idea that women never have to face social rejection- the greatest fear of a person with a fragile ego. He projects his emotional fragility and resentment onto all women, using examples of narcissistic women as a justification for assertions that women never face consequences for their actions.
However, these same delusions about women also become the focus of yonic envy: this woman-image used as a vessel to deflect from his personal failings becomes an object of totemic power, and eventually of aspiration. If women live his ideal life, then what he must do to live his ideal life is BECOME the woman.
Now... Am I describing Buffalo Bill or a "pinkpilled" /r9k/ poster?