>>115394265The message was he kept trying to find romance for the sake of doing so. In the end followed his ambitions/just lives life and found someone with similar interests who he wasn't trying to change himself for to impress like Margret or someone who was an extreme like CJ to cope with.
Just like how Rigbys relationship was genuine from almost the start but Rigby was too shy/emotionally distant until later on and both compliment each others faults mostly Rigbys.
Benson got fucked the hardest just to be essentially lonely cat lady who will die for his crappy job.