Impossible. Men can achieve levels of faggotry women can't even comprehend.
You remember how Tulio wanted to leave the city with gold, while Miguel wanted to stay? It was obviously eating themselves up inside that they couldn't reconcile, but they loved each other enough to respect the other's decision.
Women would have had an argument about it, felt sad, petty and tried to get the other to change their mind. Then their would have been heartfelt goodbyes, and empty promises to see each other. All of this, naturally, to make themselves feel better.
Men can love each other enough to let go, and comfort themselves with the knowledge of that love. Women cling and need reassurance.