>>115037364That's dating sites. Dating apps like Tinder are a bit faster paced.
The problem with any dating site is that women still expect to be approached to initiate things, and if you have to e-mail any girl to engage with her, anything more than "hey bby wats up" is really time consuming. And yet you'd have women who'd inform you, in their profile, that if you didn't put effort into your e-mail it was going in the trash bin.
Meticulously devoting yourself to a single woman at a time is actually not how men get dates. You flirt around, see who's interested, weigh your options, then date a girl who's responding and also seems like a good fit for you. That's the point of flirting and casting lines. That's why we say there's "plenty of fish", because it's like fishing. You can't catch anything if nothing is biting and you don't decide you're going to catch one very specific individual fish when you go out on the lake.
Tinder works better because as a guy, you swipe "yes" to every girl it shows you, and then wait and see who the app says you matched with. Since women are more discerning than you, you know your matches are either bots or at least some sort of nibble, and since the girl has expressed interest then you can feel free to actually engage and write messages.
