>>114568229Small caveat, I should have said "what I found to be handy for my black friends who date white girls." Obviously I can't speak for them.
4) For the love of God, if you're going to dive into the shark-tank of interracial dating, date or ask out someone progressive. I'm just as turned off by rad-fems as any other red blooded American man, but if she's taken courses on feminism, she's probably taken courses on race theory as well. And race theory is the first brick in the foundation of her being able to navigate the DELUGE of racism you will both inevitably face at some point.
5) Be ready to deal with the aforementioned deluge. Not only will every MAGA cuck and edgy /poltard/ want to tear you two down, you're also going to deal with micro-aggressions (look these up if you don't recognize the word) from her father. From her brothers. From her sisters and mom, even. They might be the most progressive chill open minded people in white America and they will STILL piss you off with weird questions about your family ("do you know your dad" is a REAL question a friend of mine was asked) attempts to touch your hair, weird generalizations, and so on.
6) Finding the right white girl is going to take time. There are a lot of them. Be patient and find a witty, intelligent, resilient one, not an Insta-THOT or a Tinder bimbo. Find a white woman who is willing to stand by you--look for the signs of this early on.
6) Oh, and be ready to deal with shit from black men too. "Our women aren't good enough for you?" and so on. Have a comeback ready.
8) Train yourself in social de-escalation. People may walk up to you while you're on a date and start shitting on you. Not to be paranoid, but this is the world we live in. Be calm, be cool, and GTFO of wherever you are safely.
9) Learn to be good at sex. Go down on her often, do foreplay. This applies to everyone but it's extra helpful in black-male-white-female relationships which have a high burnout rate.
