Yeah, that's always bothered me. I don't mind it when Peter gets knocked down, since I know he'll get back up again all the better for it, but this trend of everyone and everything shitting on him for shit well outside of his control is bullshit. Like the whole "Mayor Kingpin publicly endorses Spidey" thing.
Everyone with two brain cells to rub together should be able to figure out that Kingpin's up to something, but no, they automatically assume Spidey's got no shred of moral fiber and is actively in bed with the fat fuck. Like... what kind of leaps of logic would they have to make to arrive at that retarded fucking conclusion? It's stupid.