>>110739418What about Mr. Rogers, or Bob Ross? These people actually existed. Can't quite think of a female equivalent, but the best women probably don't take the spotlight anyway.
>>110739587I used the term quality because it kind of catches everything, while remaining flexible enough to recognize subjectivity. What I consider quality may not be what you're looking for. Quality only means something in terms of a purpose or goal. So, for me, that person is going to be a devout Christian, and not only that, she's going to have other qualities that compliment me, and I her.
But, in general terms, people I'm referring to as quality people are folks who are morally upright. Discipline and self-mastery are very important. For example, nofap (depending on why you do it) shows discipline and self-mastery, and people who do so are rewarded with better health and self-control, and so on. Would those people accept someone who is very lacking in that way? Not if they knew what was good for them. And you shouldn't either. But depending on where you're at, you might not even know what you should be disciplined in. You might not know that sex before marriage, and so on, leads to your downfall, whereas another person wouldn't even compromise on it. If you want a virgin, you should also be a virgin. Don't shun your responsibilities to the other person.
With that said, for how to find someone, it's good to figure out where the type of person you're looking for would hang out. What's important to you? Try going where they would hang out. If you just want a housewife, that's basically every woman's secret desire, so just find an honest women who hasn't been super manipulated into thinking that's bad. But, figure it out. Maybe just find people where you already hang out. Maybe not. You'll have to figure that out. It's specific to your situation.