>>109839759this is mostly it; Spinel is high-maintenance, needs and craves attention and love. She was made to and--more importantly--likes feeling that way.Steven's empathetic, but he both has too many friends and too complicated a history to really dedicate the time to Spinel she'd want.
The Diamonds, on the other hand, are looking for someone to adore, and Spinel is looking for people to please. Individually, these can be recipes for unhealthy or lopsided relationships, but together Spinel and the Diamonds meet each other's needs and wants.