>>109822300>>109822392first:im not the anon you begun to discuss with,just to not get confussed
there is a difference,being a shitty person happens when is a isolated event related to your personal experiences and decisions with little to no influence of mainstream culture
but coming from latinoamerica i can tell you that there is a widespread culture that forces certain ''roles'' on both man and women
macho ''mens'':
-men dont cry or feel
-men must always be straigth and act of determined ways
-men must be economic providers
-women are a ''object'' to be gained
-men cant be victim of women
women:
-you must be a doll wife
-your sexuality is inmoral
-you must submit to your man
-you must act like a shallow bitch to others treating mens like toys and women as adversaries
when religion,TV,your family and pretty much the average dude/dudette share this view of things,you can clearly see why is no longer considered ''shitty persons'' and more ''a flaw in the way our culture is composed''
now dont misunderstand me,i dont nothing with men being masculine or women being femenine,but i dislike the idea of culture trying to enforce said ideals like they are law and judging those that might not have to follow them
i been witness of it as well victim and agressor to certain degree,this doesnt mean im go to scream you
''evul mAn'',but there is nothing wrong to taking a look at your culture and saying ''maybe this isnt rigth''