>>109613480>Why the hell would anyone WANT to be dominated?I'm not expert, but I,ve noticed at least 2 different kinds of guys who like to be dominated.
The first is the pathetic loser type who is so desperate for any kind of affection and who's self-image is so low that simply having a woman's attention or being able to be of some ',use', to a woman is thrilling. varying levels of self-loathing and idealization of the Female may lead to various other subkinks within the BDSM world such as financial dominiation or cucking. But basically the fact that they're worthless existence can somehow, through whatever degrading means, bring a smile to a pretty girls face is a turn on
The other type is usually really successful, go getter type guys. Usually people with a lot of clout, or professional responsibilites (or even personal ones). These types tend to have a more magnetic personality than the first. usually the idea is that they're so use to always being in control of every little thing due to the immense responsibility in their lives 9think Doctors, CEO's etc) that having to be in control in the bedroom is just another hassle. Here the idea of submission, surrender, and letting someone else hold the reins and just tagging along for the ride is a huge appeal
I'm sure there are probably other types of dudes into Femdom (and these 2 aren't mutually exclusive), but those are the 2 I've noticed at least and semi understand. though perhaps someone ITT who's actually into the kink can do a better job elaborating