>>107992545Alright I’m just about done with this shit, . You beat your wife, you’re a bad person, and you’re a crappy person if you feel bad for the guy who beats his wife, saying we don’t understand and we don’t really know them. That’s the kind of shit that enables abusers, people who choose not to pass judgement, who treat abusers like they’re not. Yeah, you feel guilt, boohoo, you’re not the one who got a black eye. You’re not the one who was afraid of the person who was supposed to love you. Yeah you fucked up and you’re trying to fix it, thats good that you’re trying to fix it, you’re still shit. You’re still the person who hits their wife. A rapist is bad because they rape, an abuser is bad because they abuse people, and sometimes the shit you do can’t be fixed, you can't change the trauma, you can’t change the past, so fucking go ahead, have sympathy for everybody but the victims, tell the dad who beat his son and left him bleeding you don’t think he’s a bad person. Live your fucking life and stay proud that you don’t think abusers are bad. Keep telling yourself that the people who are angry at them are self righteous. Go ahead thinking you’re better than me.