*While this is true for both men and women, women have a greater need to build memories with someone first before falling in love with them. Men, on the other hand, need the initial attraction first. Whereas, women can learn to fall in love overtime by getting to know someone on a deeper level, why do you think girls fall harder for the teen idol harder then that boy on the other side of the room.
*She needs to know that you’re a good conversationalist
*She needs to know that you’re reliable
*She needs to know that she can be herself in front of you, Vulnerability is an important aspect to having genuine feelings for someone. She needs to know that she can be herself in front of you.
Personality's that click is the key too, it doesn't mean your going to get the girl or every girl you want but these are the first stages you have to enter first then looks come in why do you think most girls view most guys as rated average looking (research shows this too) just keep you self groomed and clean and healthy and that's about all.
Most men who get friend zone are just nice, not going any deeper with the girl because there just nice nothing more and that's why most of the time friend zone happens .