Not that guy, but I'd feel less scummy about it if it was just some random White chick. Static and Frieda never bothered me, because it was a love interest for him alone.
Pushing Gwen Stacey, any version of Gwen Stacey be she one that was with a Peter or not, onto Miles just feels wrong.
It's a shitty way to treat Peter by giving that other Spider-Man a version of his first love that was denied to him.
And it's a shitty way to treat Miles by constantly shoving variations, versions, and sometimes even the same exact individuals of Peter's supporting cast at him because you're not letting Miles have his own identity.