>>105071462I would contend that the real desire for a motherly woman stems from a desire from men to be genuinely loved and treated with unconditional affection from their partners. Especially in today's sexually liberal and impersonal society, a man is only considered a man if he provides resources to women or if he bangs one of them on a regular enough basis to be considered socially desirable. And as much as women like to think that only men are users, they like to use and toss men aside just as callously and without sympathy. The only real difference is that they can avoid being socially lambasted for because of double standards.
If a relationship doesn't work, it's the man's fault. If the woman isn't happy, it's the man's fault. If the man can't find someone to settle down with, it's the man's fault. If the man has emotional problems or is anything less than what society considers a "real man", it's the man's fault.
The only women who love, support and engage with men regardless of how much they weigh up against other men are mothers, and so men project how that love made them feel onto other women, hence the "mommy gf".
Now, most of the time, the man doesn't literally want his mother. He doesn't even literally want his female spouse to be a mother figure. He's just only ever received that level of unconditional support and love from his mother, and so he's incapable of detaching it from the concept of a mother. I guarantee that the average mommyfag would be happy if he could just find a woman who doesn't come with a list of demands and an entitled "pamper and worship me, I'm the best thing that ever happened to you" mindset. A woman who makes him feel like he can make mistakes or stop competing for five seconds without being kicked to the curb. A woman who won't erect an emotional and sexual wall the moment she sees him cry or lose.
That's what it's all about, in my opinion.
