>>105017226>the mind is a powerful thing.>is kinda sad since it seems like women who are able to really enjoy it.got that right, the mind is both a potential and a restrictor. if you gotta be seen as "the man", then you gotta push the barriers, yet you have to be in these lines of what it is to "be a man", even if it means giving someone pleasure that is seen as "taboo".
japanese culure is taught these old school barriers, yet rejects them as such. its such contradictory.
so what im saying is, try to build a relationship with your potential wife. be more open with each other, grow comfortable. just try and build a relationship. if all else fails, you have a ally in rebelling in old school nonsense, and try to live happy in your own ways.
but this is all conditional circumstances. but you should still seek your own way, if all else fails.
