That's really sweet and also kind of hot, but something about this story is bothering me
You say that you were suddenly raking in "stupid amounts of money," and apparently she knew enough about this new income flow to wonder why it didn't reflect on your computer, clothes and car.
And then, when you explained why (and became emotionally vulnerable to her), she jumped on the opportunity and became your girlfriend.
That all sounds nice and all, but taken with everything else we've heard about her (using feminism for personal gain despite not believing in it, bullying a tranny to death over a management position), I have to wonder whether or not she's just using you. She sounds ruthless, and could easily just be doing this for your money.
If this relationship has finally given you a reason to live, then I don't want to take that away from you. After all, as a random stranger over the internet, there are parts of this picture that I obviously can't see. But the bits and pieces that I'm picking up through your testimony paint a pretty dark portrait. You should make sure this girl isn't just using you before the two of you get married.