Someone brings up Hank beating his wife when Jan is right there. She says, I don't know, "Enough!" or something to get everyone's attention.
>Hank hit me. But it wasn't unprovoked.
Whoever she's talking to stares in disbelief.
>I know what you're thinking. Ultron must have gotten into my head, or I've been gaslit, or reading weird things on Reddit, right?
>I'm not absolving him of guilt, but you need to understand, he wasn't just his usual bipolar self. He had convinced himself that he was a different person, and he had killed the real Hank Pym. I don't know what was going on in his head, but I...It hurts to admit this, but if Hank is really lost to Ultron, I can't let this be his legacy.
>I used his fragile state to convince him to marry me. I was taking advantage of an unstable person at their lowest, and damn the consequences. Well, that was the consequence. I poked a bear with a stick, and let everyone blame the bear for years. I can't do that anymore.
>Please. Remember Hank for anything but that, because that wasn't him. It was me.
Or something like that. I'm trying to figure out how you could canonically point out how fucked up what Jan did was without sounding like a seething incel or at least without pissing off SJWs.