>>104858556>>104858629>>104860233>>104863086We would honestly never want a situation like that. That is going to lead to long term misery for everyone, especially the kids, no matter what they attempt to do to mitigate it.
Being "easy going" is a bit of what makes us work over here in my life--all 3 of us are.
It is not that we don't all have opinions and arguments, but you can just take the very basic, but always emotionally involved sex stuff (people need to not act like they can cut the emotion from sex).
In my case, no one have ever run out a room crying over sex/relationship stuff. The stuff we cry over is very normal--a pet dying, a grandparent dying, losing a major job or promotion, coming through a trauma like a car accident, just to name a few... and we all have each other for comfort.
Beyond that though: I feel like it only works when all 3 partners really love each other, and not have 2 in love, and one just accepting. That does not mean everyone is having 3-way sex all the time, but it means everyone is invited, and because everyone is into everyone and loves each other, no one is going to act like a 3rd person coming in in the middle is some awful intrusion or something.
IDK, also in that situation the incest thing adds another layer of potential problem to it--like a major one.
Anyhow, in my situation, we were just friends as kids. No one has to ever feel bad. Since we were little no one has cheated, which is partly what I mean when I say, despite us having a unique relationship, we are traditional. We're all 100% committed. None of that Pan-Poly stuff (which is just social media speak for "I wanna sleep around without consequence") I think the fact that the 3 of us all fully accept (and enjoy together) the consequences of our relationship (like having kids and being a stable family together) makes it work.
Lastly--does "reddit" spacing mean the fact that I actually use paragraphs? It is just how I learned to write.
