If the most recent episode is anything to go by we might actually have that.
Maybe not so much clashing ideals, but definitely resolve. White Diamond seemed to know all along, but also presumed things onto steven and yellow and blue. She strikes me as the ultimate force in emotional invalidation. >"Oh good you're back Pink. You had fun?">"I'm not really pink my name is actually-">"Oh that's good. Now come along now. You've got a lot of work to do.'
Hell the fact that she wanted to speak with pink only and not yellow or blue just sort of implies well... she doesn't care about them.
She strikes me as that specific kind of bitchy mom, you know the one that goes "I'm very sorry to hear you're suicidally depressed, but how do you think that makes me feel? Good now you'll stop talking about that now lets move along shall we?"
Yellow at least cares in that overworked office worker way about the empire and gems, and Blue was completely emotionally distraught over losing pink. White Diamond well... she seems totally fine. and has been totally fine it seems. And it is perhaps that is her ultimate ideal. "I'm Perfect. And I know everything about everyone, and I know what you're supposed to be, what you're supposed to feel, and what you're supposed to do."