I'm not particularly buff, but I'm not in bad shape either... Go to /fit/, I just started reading their stuff. I've been eating healthy for almost a year now, so that's easy. What diets don't tell you about eating healthy is that it's delicious, candies are bullshit.>>100360088
Work that, you can probably look really good. What I mentioned are just social standards of what "men" should look like, but those are constantly broken. Look at George Harrison's face in the Let It Be album cover, he's the only one smiling, and he looks precious. Chris Hemsworth also looks like a million bucks. Black men's smiles attract even more attention, Donald Glover is hot, man.
If what you're lacking is confidence, fake it 'till you make it.