If you are completely genuine, then yes, you need to be "redpilled" and realize women don't have it any worse than men do in the US. You have an extremely biased and tunnel vision view on reality.
Men are assaulted and killed more than women, are homeless more, arrested more, receive harsher sentences for the same crimes. the gap between men and women killed by cops is WAY bigger than the gap between blacks and whites. more expectations are put on men that crush them, and theres little to no support for men (thats why they kill themselves more and they are homeless more) theres no domestic violence shelters for men, men are frequently left out in capmapaigns for issues that arent as gendered as people believed. mens issues are constantly ignored while "manspreading" is actually fucking talked about in earnest on the news.
I wont go as far to say men are "oppressed", but here in the US, women are easily less so.