False comparison, faggy OC's are flat; all they have is edge. But if you have a grim and dark character that has growth and a decent background it makes them interesting. Like yeah she's edgy, but if there is a good reason for the edge it makes her a more relatable and three-dimensional.
What I'm really saying is, correlation does not equal causation, she is edgy but she's not like that OC.
Maybe you were just being hyperbolic but consider that some numale writers really think this so they end up making mary sues.