Simply criticize her reasonably. Bring up the crap she did. Don't be a fucking dickhead.
Here's a goddamn transgender furry who works for Titmouse, openly critiquing her abusive actions without being a retard about it, for pages and pages: ON TUMBLR: http://diarrheaworldstarhiphop.tumblr.com/tagged/zoe%20quinn/
Back in 2014 the turboSJW guy who got in trouble for wanting trigger warnings in books, who the entire internet hated, gave his two cents on this whole fiasco. His take was "social justice is important, but this woman is an emotional abuser and we need to stop letting such selfish humans manipulate us".
It's SO EASY... just don't be a retard. Don't use edgy chanspeak; it might sound normal to us but makes you sound like psycho shit to normal people. Don't let yourself get manipulated by every 'based' political figurehead feigning support for monetary gain and fame. Simply be a decent, smart person.