I'd like to lie to you, OP.
I'd molest her. I'm sorry, but I would.
And so, I hope my wife and I never have girls, or if we have a girl, it's nothing like her.
My wife's childhood dream was to be a sort of teacher in a school where every kid loves her and sees her as a mom, probably because she grew in Mexico watching soap operas for children where young single teachers were hired by strict nuns to help in an orphanage, or things like that. The thing is, she had romantic and naive idea about orphanages and thought love and care would save the world. I have convinced her that her heart is in the right place, although of course we can't rescue every orphan in existence with tap dances. I convinced her that we should adopt, at least our first kids, because adoption is a noble thing to do.
And I do think that. It is a noble thing.
But I have a secret reason. I have convinced her that we should adopt a boy first.
After that, I will try to find a way to convince her to adopt another boy.
And if she eventually wants a biological child, it could be another boy.
But she wants three babies, and even if I can't convince her to adopt three boys, the last one will be 50/50 chances.
Because I don't want a daughter.
Because I may molest her.
Although I will never tell that to my wife.
The thought of having a daughter terrifies me.