I liked a lot of the X-men events. Phalanx was great. Fatal Attractions was an epic, Age of Apocalypse was probably and still is the best event marvel has done and Onslaught was...well it only really botched the ending.
If you read 90s X-men there's a very clear through line in all it's family books. Shit felt like it mattered. Now it just seems like nobody has any idea or vision for what's happening and while retcons where hardly a stranger now it feels like things barely last the month before being changed.