Murder rates in Africa, the Middle East and India are comically high. People do not talk out their issues in these places and they have most of the world's population. China also is more likely to kill off political dissidents or seditious individuals than level with or tolerate them. Therefore most of the world really does come to blows before it's willing to talk about anything, and that makes a show like Steven Universe painfully unrealistic and advocating a belief system not compatible with most of the world. You are naive and will end up dead before you have the chance to pass away from old age, I would bet money on it.