>>105748530Because culturally being penetrated is considered a much more vulnerable position and a much bigger loss of innocence to happen to you as a child than being the one doing the penetrating.
Many men hear about female teachers getting it on with male students and consider it a form of wish fulfillment and something they want to have happened to them, while the reverse scenario is a sick fuck abusing his power to take advantage of an innocent little girl.
There is 100% a double standard but it’s pretty engrained in people’s ideas of sexual dynamics. As people get more “woke” (getting to the point of the extreme as you will now find people who claim a 22 year old fucking an 18 year old makes them a pedophile) we’re probably not going to see any sort of positive relationship between an underage person and an adult in the media but I don’t think male children being abused by a female adult will ever be taken quite as seriously so long as all she’s doing is letting him get his dick wet