Yeah it really does bug me for that reason. Sometimes I'll see a couple and I'll think "oh they're cute" and everyone's like "TIME TO DEFILE THIS PURE WHITE GIRL WITH HIS BIG NIGGER COCK" and I can't help but wonder if they realize black people are just normal dudes. Part of why I dug Miles and Gwen (in Spider-verse and sorta only that so far) was cuz Miles was this nervous awkward deer in the headlights. He was like any stupid nervous kid trying to flirt for the first time. I can't imagine him BLACKING anyone because he's the kinda guy who'd ask "are you ok, am I doing this right, did that hurt, oops sorry sorry" Like 20 times during sex.