On going out, I haven't really been able to find a job. I bought into the "college means employment" meme.
On top of that, I'm really just not a social person. The things I love are all solitary. I suppose I could scrounge up cash and go to bars; I like to try new mixed drinks.
As for women? I can't blame them for not finding me attractive (*I* don't find me attractive, and I'm into both men and women). Not their fault. I don't mind the lack of sex or companionship. I'm young, but I've accepted it as a fact of life that might change, but probably won't, and that's OK. I don't feel the need to "get" girls, if that makes sense. Never have. I'm 5'3" and, not to put too much blame on my height, it's OK to not have any interest in a competition where you were handicapped from the start. There's more to it than height, but that's a big factor, and I know I can't change that.
It's honestly very liberating to realize I don't even need to bother trying and lose interest in it. It's kind of zen, the general acceptance here.