Wrong being a male masochist is a bad thing. Wanting to be dominated instead of dominating is literally cuck tier.
If you're okay with a woman spitting on you, forcing you to drink her pee, hurting you physically, mentally or emotionally, then you are almost certainly okay with a woman humiliating you and cheating on you and having sex with another man in front of you as you watch deprived of sex.
Sadist is the way to go.
Sadist man vs Sadist woman is the true thinking mans fetish.